Salsa Date Night at Home

This week’s great date at home is a salsa dance party. It is an easy and creative date to put together. First off research some at home YouTube tutorials. I like this channel myself.  YouTube even allows you to create a playlist of specific videos which will help make your dance lesson easier. Create a playlist of 3 to 4 videos that you think you and your spouse will enjoy.

Make some refreshments for your date. Make some chips and salsa with homemade Queso. Spend the evening dancing check to check with your spouse. Enjoy being in each other’s arms, and learn something new. Eat some yummy refreshments and spend time connecting with each other.

Here is a recipe that I like to use:

• 1/2 a yellow onion, diced
• 1 poblano pepper, deseeded & diced
• 1 jalapeno pepper, deseeded & diced
• 4 cloves of garlic, minced
• 2 tablespoons of butter
• 2 tablespoons of all purpose flour 
• 1-1 1/2 cups of half & half (adjust according to desired thickness)
• 8 ounces of sharp cheddar cheese, finely grated*
• 4 ounces of pepper jack cheese, finely grated
• 4 ounces of cream cheese, cubed
• 1 (4 oz) can of chopped green chiles, undrained
• 7 ounces (1/2 a can) of fire roasted diced tomatoes, drained OR fresh tomatoes diced
• Juice from 1/2 a lime
• 1 teaspoon of cumin powder
• 1 teaspoon of chili powder
• Sea salt, to taste
• Cayenne pepper, to taste
• *Note: I urge you to buy block cheese and grate it by hand, as pre-shredded cheese is covered in anti-caking ingredients that can cause it to clump instead of melting into a smooth dip.

INSTRUCTIONS:

1. Prep the ingredients first so you're not distracted while making the cheese dip: peel and dice the onion, dice the poblano and jalapeno pepper (after removing the stem and seeds), peel & mince the garlic, shred both the cheeses, cube the cream cheese, measure out the butter, flour (or preferred thickener), and half & half, and drain and measure out the tomatoes. Set the sea salt, cumin, chili powder, cayenne pepper, lime, and chopped green chiles to the side to add last.
2. Add the cooking oil to a skillet set over medium heat. Follow this with the diced onion, jalapeno, and poblano. Sprinkle the veggies with a little sea salt (to taste) and cook for 10 minutes, stirring occasionally, then turn off the heat and set aside.
3. Add the butter to a saucepan set over medium-low heat and let it melt. Slowly sprinkle in the flour a bit at a time, stirring constantly, then let the butter/flour (roux) mixture cook for about 5 minutes, or until it's lightly browned. Slowly pour in the half & half, stirring constantly (and well) to prevent clumps.
4. Bring the mixture up to a slight simmer (you will see bubbles form around the edge of the milk), reduce the heat to LOW, then slowly add the shredded cheese about 1/4 cup at a time, stirring constantly to prevent clumps or the cheese from separating. The KEY to success here is to let each portion of cheese melt fully before adding the next amount.
5. Once all the shredded cheese is fully incorporated and smooth, add the cream cheese in chunks and stir until fully dissolved. Gently fold in the cooked onion, peppers, garlic, diced green chiles (undrained), tomatoes (drained), cumin powder, chili powder, and cayenne pepper. Taste the mixture and add sea salt to taste, as well as more spices, if you feel necessary. Remove from heat and serve immediately with chips or your favorite dipping foods.

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Scary Movie Date Night

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This weeks at home date idea is sure to get your heart racing! While it is fun to watch scary movies closer to Halloween, shake things up and do this date in the middle of summer. Pop some popcorn and get some movie theater like candy. Both Dollar Tree and Walmart have boxed candy for a $1. Grab some soda too if you like it. Light some candles in the living room, and wait until dark to watch your scary movie. There are plenty of scary movies outside of slasher films if that is what you prefer. Here is a list of some that are a little more tame: 

 

When a Stranger Calls

 The Others

Insidious

The Sixth Sense

The Village

The Skeleton Key

The House at the End of The Street

The Messengers

Here is the link to another list for great PG-13 Scary Movies. 

So cuddle up and enjoy the jumps, chills, and screams tonight with your scary movie night!

Lets Be Kids Date Night

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This is a new twist to a at home date night. This week’s date night is all about being a kid. This is a great Saturday morning date. Preparation for this date is easy and it doesn’t cost much. First pick out a favorite sugary cold cereal you used to love as a kid, pick out one for your spouse as well. Pick up a fun children’s board game that you enjoy, there are many available like trouble, candy land, chutes and ladders and connect 4. Uno is also a great option. If you have some Lego's laying around get those out too, or any other kind of building toy.

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Wake up early and make yourself and your spouse some yummy kid cereal. Then watch some Saturday morning cartoons together, or find some of your favorite kids shows from your past on YouTube or other streaming services. Saturday morning cartoons was a favorite pastime of my husband.  Then play the board game you choose. Another fun activity would be to give yourself a 30 second time limit to build something fun and unique out of your Lego's. Or even spend time building a masterpiece together. While you are building spend time talking about your childhood. Talk about things you loved as a kid. If you have children talk about what you want their childhood to be like. Being intentional about your conversation during date night helps build intimacy and closeness with your partner.